“I don’t want to point the finger, but it may be that “person’s” fault”
The lack of ownership can be seen a few ways but is honestly only one thing…a way to lose support or followers.
No one likes to help a person that blames others for their faults. I am not aware of anyone that continues to support a habitual finger pointing blamer.
What type of personality do you think this come from?
The person that finds every excuse to dodge the blame but finds 5 ways to place the blame on someone else. Some people are so confused on the blame game…you only need one reason to blame someone, not five!
I once timed a conversation, just to see if the blamer would give up and realize, and admit, that it was their fault. That one encounter took 17 minutes for the person to give up and stop lying to themselves and to me. Sad right?!
Another thing that a finger pointer never seems to realize is that for every excuse they present as someone else’s fault is an actual problem that needs to be fixed.
How many of you know people that identify problems, when it comes to blaming someone else, but never try to fix the problems they have chosen to highlight?
To wrap this up, I could keep going, don’t point the finger at someone else when you are the one at fault. Take your lumps, correct the issue, and then move on. We would all prefer that person to grow from it, but if they chose not to grow, at least fix the problem.